Anyway, this morning I had decided that when he rang me, I would be in full laughter mode when I answered. He always laughs first and today I was going to change that.  Well Skype rings and I get up a nice big laugh and answer it – now there’s the dinosaur bit – without looking to see that it was my coach.  So there I am giving my best laugh when I realise that this is all a bit odd and I can see things on the screen that I usually only see in the bathroom!

On a closer check, I had been hit by a sex-cam. Next bit of dinosaur behaviour – never heard of that before.  Well, my deviant had arrived and I can only wonder what their reaction was to the dinosaur laughing on the other end of Skype.  Off course I hung up and stopped all contact and then my real coach rang.

I can tell you that this experience was very good for my personal development. First of all we laughed like crazy about it and laughter is really good for you for all sorts of reasons.  Second, I realised how very detached from the experience I was and that is a great thing.  I took the perspective, without having to think about it, that these things happen – they are what they are – of no relevance to me.  I laughed and got on with my merry day and so far it has been just great.